Update on Brian

Brian has wisely taken some time before he returns to work. He is currently spending time with his family and working through all the normal issues that must be attended to. He appreciates everyones support and continued prayers.

Many people are trying to make contributions to the account that was set up for Nikki and Brian. Some branches are asking for an account number which is not necessary. You just need to give them Nikki's first and last name and they will look up the account number. If the Washington Mutual branch is having a problem finding the account, you can have the branch call Monica Zedd at the Fremont branch at 510-657-0121. She will walk the employees through the donation acceptance process. Be sure to inform Beverly Shull of your donation. You can also mail your donation to Beverly or to the Fremont branch. The address for the bank is 43333 Christy St. Fremont, CA 94538 or for Beverly Shull 2508 Grove Ct. Antioch, CA 94509.

If you are writing a check it must be written to Beverly Lynn Shull FBO Nikole Phipps. Beverly is Nikki's friend that initiated this account.

Tuesday Morning

The two years that Nikki was fighting cancer was a significant drain on their finances. An account was opened up at Washington Mutual by Nikki's friend for those who would like to make a donation. The family requests a contribution be made to this account in lieu of sending flowers. Please refer to the blog posting dated Wednesday 23.

Nikki has requested that her memorial be a celebration of her life. She would like her family and friends to wear cheerful colors. Nikki wanted her reception to be uplifting, full of laughter and music, with lots of stories shared while enjoying food and wine.

We hope you all can join us.

Monday Afternoon

Memorial Services for Nikki will be held Monday August 4, 11:00 a.m. at The Catheral of Faith church, 2315 Canoas Garden Ave, San Jose 95125. (Services will be held in the large chapel. When entering the front doors go down the right hallway.) All are invited to a memorial celebration reception immediately following at Napredak Hall, 770 Montague Expy, San Jose. (about 20 minutes driving time from the church.)

Sunday Night

Our beautiful Nikki passed away at 5:40 pm Sunday evening. One is never prepared for the finality of losing someone you care so deeply for.

We will post information about the services when available.

Sunday Morning 11:00 am

The hospice nurse was just here. Brian wanted to make sure there was nothing else we could be doing to care for Nikki. Nikki can't swallow liquid any longer so she is getting Morphine on a regular basis on top of pain medication from a 3-day patch. With the active dying signs that she has, most older people would already be gone. She is young and strong and has stayed with us longer than most. Today or tonight will probably be her time to let go.

Medical personnel associated with her case, including doctors and nurses, have noticed and commented on the excellent level of care and compassion Brian provides to Nikki. The hospice nurse just said again how much better Nikki is here with Brian's ability to care for her than she would be in a hospital. I wish you could all see the amazing love that has been shared by them even in these final days.

Nikki can still hear even though see doesn't speak or open her eyes. Comments are still being read to her.

Sunday Morning

Nikki is still with us this morning, we didn't think she would make it through the night. Nikki had a difficult day yesterday, her breathing is more labored than before. Nikki seems to be in pain and we are increasing her pain medication so she is comfortable. Nikki is not really responsive any longer. The families are staying close to be with Nikki and Brian. As much as we want her here with us, we pray for her to let go and be with our Father in Heaven.

Saturday Afternoon

Nikki continues to hold on, she is such a fighter. Nikki's parents and sister as well as Brian's mother and sister are by her side and supporting Brian. We have been sharing with Nikki all the wonderful blog comments and messages of love from family and friends. We all know what an incredible person Nikki is but it is amazing to see how many people's lives she has touched and enriched. Nikki is truly one of a kind!